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May 2014, less than 2 months before diagnosis
July 2014. A day or two after diagnosis.
Adrienne shaving off my hair before chemo. I kind of remember this moment, but I was already on a lot of morphine.
Starting to lose my hair after the first round of chemo.
September 2014. My 30th birthday.
October 2014. Back in hospital for the transplant.
February 2015. Around 100 days post-transplant.
April 2015. Hair is officially curly!
July 2015, one week shy of Cancerversary. Red lippy is back, now sporting my "jewfro" and meeting my idol in person.
We are such stuff
As dreams are made on
I had the weirdest dream
I had finally moved to New York
But I was in Connecticut with 
Two bug bites on my legs that had  
Turned into huge infections
I was diagnosed with cancer
Acute Myeloid Leukemia 

Patti LuPone sent me an email 
They filled my body with chemo drugs and
All my hair fell out 
My legs looked like something out of an alien movie 
They stood me in a large room, strapped me to a frame
And radiated my entire body 
They wiped out my immune system 
Took some of my sister’s cells
And injected them into me 

I wasn’t allowed to go to the theatre 
Wasn’t allowed to eat take out
All my energy was gone 
I felt nauseous 
I felt tired
I threw up
I felt depressed
I felt angry
I felt like giving up
Every week they tested my blood
They injected a needle into the back of my hip and drew out the marrow
Be a patient patient. 

We never know what’s next
We could fall in love
We could meet our idols 
We could get cancer 
How do we exist on the precipice between joy and despair? 

We live on a rock covered in water 
Just so far from a flaming ball of gas
Surrounded by other rocks 
That expands to infinity and… 
The miracle is that after a several millennia 
We still don’t really know what it’s all about
We have some theories
But we don’t really know 
What is this dream?

Months passed 
No more cancer
Remission
Healing slowly
And then it was a year later

I am living in New York
My hair is back, curly
My strength is returning
I don’t feel nauseous
I do often feel tired
I often feel depressed
I often feel angry 
I still sometimes feel like giving up 
I try to balance on the precipice between joy and despair 

I am married to the most wonderful person
He is patient and kind and loving 
And through him I have a wonderful, patient, kind, and loving family 
Day by day I’m feeling better 
I am allowed to go to the theatre again
I met Patti LuPone in person
She told me to be well 
Alright, Patti. If you say so… 

This past twelve months
Has been a rollercoaster
It has been hell
It has bought me closer to my American family 
It has made me stronger. 
It has made me weaker. 
It has made me 
Different. 

Thursday is the anniversary of being told I had cancer. 
Yesterday I wore shorts in public for the first time since diagnosis 
It was just too bloody hot 
I’ve become proud of my scars 
Those damn things saved my life 

This whole dream
Is difficult to fathom
But such is the stuff of life
And while I am here
I will endeavor to remain
Awake. 
2 Comments
Roberta - 11 years ago
So much more than like -- it's poetry that leaves me breathless
Luisa - 11 years ago
Thank you Roberta! Looking forward to seeing you in a couple of weeks!!! :)

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