That feeling when you share something hard with a friend 
And you don't want to come across as That Miserable Person
So you end it with
"Well at least I've got a roof over my head and food in my belly"
And she says
"Gratitude is nice. But it's ok for it to be hard. I know it's hard right now."
The relief that floods through you
The relief of being seen and understood
And held in the pain
​Even if for a moment.