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For over half your life
The Dream has been
To live in
New York City
Centre of the universe
Land of the Broadway musical
The most sung about 
Danced in locale
On the face of the earth 

Your childhood 
Disney musical diet
Led you to believe that 
You meet the prince
You fall in love, and, 
Your dreams come true 

But what if 
Cinderella 
Escapes her broom 
Marries the prince
Moves into the castle, and
Gets cancer?

Because you have
Escaped your hometown 
Fallen in love
Married your sweet prince
Moved to New York
And gotten cancer

And it changes everything. 

You're finally living in the city of your dreams
Broadway is a subway ride away
But you can't ride the subway
Because your immune system is compromised 
Because it was wiped out and replaced with stem cells from your sister
After you had three rounds of chemo
After you stood in a contraption, 
Your arms tied in straps
Your waist cinched in a harness
Lest you collapse,
Fifty shades this ain't 
Fifty shades of cancer treatment 
Full body irradiation
That you can't feel, see, smell, or taste
But make you throw up your insides 
And leave you feeling utterly, utterly drained and helpless
All that, after you were told
You. Have. Cancer. 

Tell five years ago Me,
A year ago even,
Your dreams come true.
You live in New York
You marry a prince
(Truly, he's the most wonderful gentleman)
But you'll have to wait to 
Really Enjoy It 
No subways, no takeout, 
No coffees in cafes in 
Uptown, or downtown 
Or even Brooklyn 
No being in crowds
And definitely no Broadway. 

We thought that  
100 days post-transplant 
I would have more freedom
So we waited out
Three months and a bit 
A bone marrow biopsy
And two weeks more

To be told 
My immune system is still weak
Crowds are dangerous
The subway is a seething cesspit of germs 
All food needs to be cooked at home
Broadway will have to wait
A little longer 

Life happens, as it does
And always will
Dreams do come true
Just in unexpected ways
With unexpected turns
You readjust and
Nurture the dream 
Watch it on the shelf
And promise you'll take it down soon. 
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Watching the movie musical 
Of the musical
That has been in my life
Longer than five years
Memories of my interactions with the show
Flood back 

Early uni days
In Sydney 
When cast albums became accessible
And the internet made 
Broadway 
Not so far away 
And I “discovered”
Jason Robert Brown and
The Last Five Years

Working on the student production
Lighting op with Len  
Who became one of my dearest friends
The musty smell of Fig Tree Theatre

Watching the production at Sydney Uni
Directed by Benita, now at Columbia
Starring Blake, now in Blood Brothers
And Lexi, now an opera singer in Berlin 
An early date with the boy 
Who I thought would be husband

We were engaged in September 2009
And by February 2010
Five years ago
It was all over.

And then it all began.

I quit my day job
I started meditating
I saw JRB in concert 
I auditioned for drama school
I moved to London
I fell in love
I walked across Spain
I moved to Colorado
I got married
We moved to New York
I got fucking cancer
I sat in my lounge room and watched 
The Last Five Years movie musical
On demand. Because you can do that now.

Seeing New York flit across the screen
Your new home town
Soon you’ll join the line of girls
Belting as high as they can
And you’ve been through that break-up
You’ve felt that euphoria
Goodbye until tomorrow 
And you just have to be patient
For the next ten minutes

And that score
The way it catches in your throat
Breaks your heart 
And brings back all these memories of 
The last five years.

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